Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Tearing the Cloak in Two


Tearing the Cloak in Two

"Happy and young and gallant,
They saw their first-born go,
But not the strong broken
And the beautiful men brought low."
   ___ Ewart Alan Mackintosh, "In Memoriam, Private D. Sutherland"


   Within the last five generations, there has probably not been a family living that did not have some remembrance of war and conflict, some dead to mourn as a result of warfare. This day, November 11, has commemorated dead warriors, throughout the Western world, since the armistice of the First World War.

  Those who serve in the defense of their families and countries - like the Gaulish soldier St. Martin of Tours, who tore his fine cloak in two to cloth the needy - tear the cloak of their lives in two, severing themselves from accustomed comfort and habitual kindness to enter a zone of pain and confrontation.

  In our own age, where much of the warfare is against ignorance, heatlessness, and environmental devastation, new kinds of warriors learn the art of sacrifice with a different set of weapons. They seek to tear their lives in two to make a greater mantle in the defense of the poor, the innocent, the needy.

  We no longer glorify war as our ancestors did; the loss, grief, and bewilderment of families for their fallen have been too great in the 20th century and this one, for such assuaging. We count the cost and bless the sacrifice of those who have had the courage to tearthe cloak in two, knowing that they did not glory in the pain and bloodshed any more than we ourselves now do.

"Make your own prayer of remembrance for those who have died in war and for those who are on the battlefield of conflict throughout the world today."
[From: "The Celtic Spirit" by Caitlin Matthews]

From: http://wethreecats.blogspot.com/2009_08_01_archive.html
Monday, August 3, 2009


A place of belonging





From the first day She came to the house She had known it was there, hidden somewhere in the roof. The woman who lived here before told Her about it. But we learned the story from the cats who had lived here before.

So when the builders came and tore the house apart we kept a watchful eye for it, waited, until it came to light. It was almost swept out with the rubble, all bent and tangled with cobwebs, it looked like nothing. But the young one saw it, picked it out, and put it safe up high. Something called to him, through the years, told him to keep it safe. Something, or someone.
 
Years ago there was a tradition that when a child left home you would place one of their shoes in the eaves of the house. This way they would always return, no matter how far they roamed, no matter where. This boot, now bent with age, now dry and dusty, this hobnailed boot belonged to a child, much loved. This was the Sunday best, going to church boot, all groomed and shod. All week the child would run barefoot over the hills, wild with the wonder of heather and gorse, seals and the sea, barefoot in the grass in the sand in the waves. On Sundays they would march together into church and sit in solemn rows.


Once this boot shone, polished with love, caressed by a mother's hands. She would tie the laces for the restless child, hug him close and breath in his summer scent, then lose him on the world and watch him run, between the high banks, all the way to the big church.

And when he grew too big for his child's shoe she kept it safe.

Then came the day that she dreaded, when the world called her boy away to war. She watched him march away with the other lads from Treleddyd Fawr, excited, full of themselves and full of the joy of being alive. She watched until he was long gone and still she stood. Then she fetched the shoe from its draw and placed it in the eaves of the house and said a small prayer
 
In St Davids Cathedral there is a war memorial that carries the names of three of the sons from Treleddyd Fawr who died in the Great War.


It is said that if the shoe in the eves did not bring the child home that it would draw back their spirit to rest at home so it would not wander the earth in some foreign land, forever lost.

Sometimes, when the day is calm, we think we can hear the laughter of a child, the click clack and clatter of hobnail boots on the stairs.


Earlier today we sent Her off to St Davids Cathedral to see if She could find the memorial. She found James Price from Treleddid Fawr. Perhaps this was James's hobnail boot?

She will put the boot back in the eaves. This is where it belongs.
 

2 comments:

  1. Thanks for a wonderful post. We've all lost family in the great wars. We must keep remembering them because when we forget, we lose ourselves.
    Mary

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  2. This is very true. I also grieve for the families who lost members even if they are not related to me personally such as in this story above.

    Sobeit

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